Anonymous asked: I have a friend with benefit and we met online. We only did it once and that was a few months ago and havent done it since b/c of schedule conflicts. Our main communication is msn and we used to stay in touch and talk about non sex related stuff. But since December its always me that has to start the conversation; if I dont start it then we dont talk at all. I cant tell if hes really busy or hinting that hes not interested anymore. Hes still DTF but I feel like im forcing it upon him.
You sound like a worried nagging girlfriend. You need to lighten up about sex. If he’s not interested then fine. Don’t go out of your way to just get laid. Hooking up is supposed to be simple. Don’t ever make a big deal about “he hasn’t called” or “I always have to talk to him first” because that means you’re’ getting too attached to something when there is supposed to be NOTHING there.
