Cuddling
I enjoy it a lot, but I don’t like cuddling with a hook up. If I have a hook up, I try to distance myself from every type of physical bonding as possible. This means: no cuddling, no kissing (depending on how cute the guy is I’ll make exceptions), and conversation.
This is by no means a overall rule for everyone who does NSA. I think there are people who are capable of doing No Strings Attached with kissing, cuddling, having a deep conversation, but many of us tend to grow feelings of attachment to someone when we do those things. That is why I don’t approve of people first starting out to “hook-up” to do any of the things mentioned above because you are new to the game and you’ll get caught off guard.
I like to treat every hook-up like a business meeting.
The initiation: Getting the guy and telling him straightforward that I just want my penis in his ass
I go in it with the plan: The plan is to fuck the guy.
The ending result: To have an orgasm
Cuddling is for friends (if it is playful and the intentions are known), and significant others in my eyes.
