Anonymous asked: Me and my boyfriend see each other once or twice a month, due to our BUSY schedules. When I'm with him, he wants to fuck me, but I don't know how to bottom anymore…it kind of hurts, now. What can I do to make it more enjoyable?
I don’t know how someone could not want to have sex, but you’re a bottom and I don’t like bottoming. It’s hard for me to enjoy it as well, so I see your dilemma.
If you want to make it less painful I would suggest buying a dildo and practicing while he’s away so you can get used to it again.
Another option is to steer him away from anal. Distract him with a really good handjob, or blowjob.
If neither of those are an option then lube up. Tell him to take it slow. I usually like to be on top because you have a bit more control of when he thrusts. You can tell him that he can lay back and you’ll work it. That way you can go at the pace you want.
If you don’t like either of those options just tell him you don’t want to fuck, simple as that.
